This looking and seeing is a theme I visit on occasion. Perhaps it’s only a mind game yet…is it a worthy one?
I look. I see something. Based on what I expect to see, studies have shown that I confirm my already-formed perceptions. It is comforting to me to imagine that what I see gives confirmation to what I perceive or believe to be so. If my preformed perceptions are confirmed, I often don’t look any deeper.
These preformed perspectives help me to navigate through my life. It can be personally challenging for anyone to entertain another perspective or opinion because we count on our prepackaged viewpoints. I unconsciously give myself confirmation that what I see is the way it really is. To consider another perspective or to go below the surface of my thoughts or beliefs, I would have to be very flexible. This sort of shift creates an instability. Few people are comfortable with instability. I don’t want disruption and chaos. No way!
Assuming that how I see something is the way it actually is, I rarely consider that you might see something entirely different and that to you, it is also true.
If you went below the surface of your perceptions, what might you discover?